Busy as Distraction


Busy.  Distracted?

I become distracted by being "busy."  
In the past, I often used "busy" as an excuse to avert my focus from what's harder/scarier: 
My own goals. 
Ah, distraction as a defense mechanism...

Since the start of 2018, I have been living in an "in-between" period.
A transitional space.
So much unknown to keep me busy!
Becoming overly involved in my external environment
Distracted. 
Making connections, yes, but NOT keeping my personal goals close and clear.

I am envisioning:
My heart's goals, my passion's goals as
A solid core 
Surrounded by the details 
(people, places, circumstances, timeline) 
that are
Unknown and flexible
Completely controlled 
By the creativity of the universe
(Not me...lol)

How do I remember?  How do I not get lost in life's details (willingly or unwillingly)?

For me, I talk to friends about my goals (so they can gently hold me accountable).  I write about my goals to instill them in my mind.  I make vision boards.  I try to get specific about where my passion intersects with my needs.  I write lists on my phone to re-read in the few minutes before I go in to work.  I write reminders on my bathroom mirror with dry-erase marker.  I meditate.  I go for walks.  I let there be silence and stillness in my life.  I go to the beach and I speak frankly to the ocean. 

What are some ways you keep your heart's goals in sight?


Location: Long Beach, CA, USA

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